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A Day With a Girl

It was not the first time that we met, but the first time we talked and I "picked" her up. We talked of "Spiderman," "Batman" and "Superman" and "Spiderman" emerged as the favourite hero. We "threw" spiderwebs and caught planes in the sky and climbed buildings. We discussed at length where I could get a "spidy" outfit since her's were too small for me to fit. We counted roses around the place and the people passing by. We picked up a book to read a story and the story we "read" was nowhere near the story that was written. We counted our ones, twos and threes and recited the A, B and C though we never got far in either. We discovered that she had powers in her shoes and had a head-to-head" fight and everytime she won. We made faces, danced around the room and went to lunch nearby and probably the only time we walked together.Then we got back to the carrying round, tiny hands clasped around to give a hug. 

Years from now she'll be all grown up and we will never do some of the things together, perhaps she'll not even remember it but then, the memories are mine to keep. At the end of the day, I was left with an aching arm and a grateful heart-a heart that was for a little while again a child.

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